Where your head actually goes

One bad play shouldn't cost you your next 3 shifts.
But you know what happens. You turn the puck over, you get back to the bench, and even once you're back out there you're still thinking about it. Now you're playing not to make another mistake instead of playing to make something happen.
Some nights you play your game. Some nights you don't. A step behind and you can't work out why, thinking about the last shift instead of this one.
And you know you're better than what you just showed. You've got no way to prove it, because the only place it shows up reliably is practice.
Here's where your head goes instead.
Backwards
The shift you didn't get. The play you didn't make. The goal that didn't go in. The ice time you should have had.
Forwards
Am I getting drafted. Do I need an agent. Where am I training this summer. Do I need a different coach. Is this even the right team.
Both of those feel like work. Neither of them is.
Everything on that list is either behind you or not here yet. Meanwhile the only question that changes anything today is the one nobody asks you. What is the most important thing for me to work on right now?
So you ask for help. Relax. Be confident. Stop thinking so much. Control what you can't control.
All good ideas.Nobody tells you how to actually run any of them.
Meanwhile, here's what is actually happening to you.
Coaches make up their mind about you faster than you think, and what they decide first tends to stick. Vinny has watched teams release players who'd have been better for them than the guys they kept, purely because of the order things happened in.
And there's usually one thing your coach wants from you that you're quietly fighting. You'll do everything else. The gym, the practices, the sleep, moving away from home. Then the one thing that holds the keys, you resist, because somewhere underneath it you think he is wrong about you.
None of that is a skill problem.
And here's what's actually going on. There's 40 things you could be working on right now, and every one of them is legitimate. Your skills coach has 3. Your head coach has 2 more. Your assistant coach has some good advice. Somebody sent you a video.
So you carry all of it out onto the ice. You're thinking about 8 things, and the guy across from you is thinking about 1.
He's not smarter than you. He just knows which one.
There's a system for it. It starts with getting clear on what is actually true about your game, from evidence rather than hope. That part is teachable, and it doesn't require one on one.
You can work it out on your own. Most players do. It takes them about 3 seasons, and a lot of shifts they don't get back.
What it requires is a room of players who are serious, and one small enough that nobody hides in it.
20 is that room.


